Since last week I have been tortured emotionally and mentally by my 3 year old girl. SHE REFUSED TO EAT!
It has been almost a week now and she still refused to eat. This is what I am going through everyday:
Morning (8am) - made her a bottle of milk, usually 7oz and she will finish half only
Breakfast (10 ish) - refused to eat anything
Lunch (1pm) - when we're preparing rice she will say she already had her food and she's not hungry. We'll force her to eat the food and she will sulk and pretend to vomit and will insist that we give her small spoons only otherwise she will throw up (small as in 1/3 of a teaspoon!). We'll struggle to make her finish about half a bowl of rice. Sometimes we just give up after a few spoons cause she will start crying, and we'll start losing our temper etc.
Tea (3pm) - another bottle of milk, sometimes she won't finish
Dinner (6pm) - similar struggle as per lunch
Last milk feed (9pm) - she usually will fnish this one but sometimes insist that we make her just half a bottle.
I am really upset. Why did she suddenly become like this? She used to love her milk and will eat whatever we eat. What makes her change so suddenly? It will be easier if we give her junk food as in ice cream, chocolate, McDonalds etc. She will take them with no problems.
I've de-wormed her 2 weeks ago, will the de-worm cause loss of appetite? It doesn't look like it cause she will finish the entire ice cream so her appetite is definitely there, just that she's selective of what she wants to eat. I brought her to the doctor cause I was really worried and he said de-worming will not usually cause loss of appetite but he said it could still be a possibility.
The doctor also asked if there was anything else that we've changed in her life in the last few weeks prior to this new 'phase'. The only other thing we did was that we've stopped sending her to the babysitter since Reni arrived. Could this have caused her to be emotionally upset and hence this horrible phase to get our attention?
I have tried talking to her, asking her what was wrong but all she said was 'I don't want big mouth' ie referring to small amount when we feed her. She did not tell me anything else.
I am going to lose my mind very soon. Should I just let her starve until she ask me for food????
What should I do?????? I am just worried that she will fall ill if this goes on.